Message Number: 409
From: Melanie Reeves <melzafish Æ sbcglobal.net>
Date: Fri, 30 Jun 2006 00:04:30 -0700 (PDT)
Subject: Re: Fairer Favors
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Good points, Monica!  This is why it only makes sense to me for a family or  a
couple or a close group of friends or a group of co-workers (as long as you 're
sure none of them are rapists! :-)) to use the system.	Does Bethany  have to
go with the lowest bidder though?  Can't she skip the "rapist's" offer	and pay
more for better service just like we can choose not to shop at	Walmart?


----- Original Message ----
From: Monica Stephens  
To: Lisa Hsu  
Cc: Daniel Reeves  ; improvetheworld Æ umich.edu; Michael Schwarz	 ;
David Pennock  ; Yiling  Chen  ; Daniel Reeves	; yootopia -discuss Æ
yahoo-inc.com
Sent: Thursday, June 29, 2006 11:08:05 PM
Subject: Re: Fairer Favors


I only felt comfortable bidding on bethany's airport trip after I e-mailed her 
first.	I didn't want to force her (through underbidding everybody else ) to
make an economic decision she was not socially comfortable with, and I	think
that's my largest qualm with using this system.  
I don't see the value of all airport rides as the same.  If I were looking for 
a ride to the airport, and my partner bid an exorbitant amount of yootles 
(i.e. Danny's Y$2000) to fly here and drive me to the airport, I would want  to
discourage others from underbidding him in the auction.   There is a  value
added from spending the 30 min. drive time with him.  After all, if I  then
owed Y$2000, and he had a 2000 yootle surplus, it would be in my best  interest
to immediately start charging yootles for things I usually do (cooking ,
cleaning, dishes, backrubs, etc=E2 =A6).   I would probably make up  the
difference in less than 30 days, but I'd certainly piss him off in the 
process.  Not only would he have to fly to Michigan for 30 minutes of my  time,
but he'd then have to deal with price gouging for a back rub at 1:30  am.
 
So, back to Bethany's trip to the airport.  What if a rapist bid 1 yootle to 
drive her to the airport?  It would be like the walmartization of the yootle 
system--one could undercut everybody else, economically force her to buy  their
service, then provide a crappy service that hurts everybody in the long -run. 
 
-Monica


 
On 6/29/06, Lisa Hsu   wrote: 
the thing that really sold me on the yootles idea is the anecdote danny had  in
his faq from dave...that sometimes he and exes have been at odds over something
, and he "won" the argument when it really mattered much less to him  than her,
whatever it was.  i think there is always room for spontaneity/generousity ,
but there are times where one of us wants something (pizza) and  another wants
something else (thai food) and we need some medium of arbitration ...so i think
it would be cool for my fiance and i to try yootles. 

a concern though, that i didn't think of until i saw melanie's email and danny
's email, is that then you might feel you get "owed" yootles for being generous
.  like, if one day i just felt like making him his favorite food, and	he
didn't act sufficiently grateful ;), then i'd feel like he should have	given
me a bunch of yootles...hmmm...and eventually i might stop offering 
spontaneous gestures...?? 

i'm just thinking out loud here.

i used to be concise and eloquent, before i became a full time engineer in
college .  somehow, james has managed to keep his linguistic gifts, lucky him 
:).
 

lisa



On 6/29/06, Daniel Reeves   wrote: 
I'm getting responses offline indicating mass misunderstanding of
Bethany's yootles mechanism.  I encourage you all to spam the group 
(reply-all) since it's really no problem for people to just ignore/delete
the whole thread (as long as you don't change the subject line). 

The main question is "what good is a yootle?"  The answer is, as 
established by precedent, about a fiftieth of a ride to the airport.
Yootles are not meant to be exchanged for money.  Nonetheless, if you 
acquire yootles you will, in a real sense, get positive utility out of
them.  In fact, I personally guarantee it.  If you can't find anything
else to do with them I will give you cash for them.  Seriously, they're 
very useful to me for things like influencing family decisions or getting 
out of doing the dishes.  Or getting out of tasks my boss assigns (I kid
you not -- ask him; he's cc'd).  Which perhaps means I shouldn't be 
allowed to buy yootles -- that question is still under debate.	The whole 
yootles thing is still brand new.  It would be great to get input from you
all.

The other question about Bethany's airport auction people are asking is, 
why are people who aren't even in Michigan bidding thousands of yootles? 
Yes, it would be very dumb for me to fly to Detroit to take Bethany to the
airport to fly to New York to visit me.  But my bid just reflects that if 
for some crazy hypothetical reason she needed one of us to drive her at 
any cost, that's roughly what the cost to me would be.	The auction
mechanism now uses that information to decide that, yes, it would be dumb 
for Danny to do it!  And, as you can see, I'm fortunately losing the 
auction.

One anonymous person (ok, fine, my grandfather) has opined that this is an
awful idea and that people should arrange exchanges of favors with no 
explicit tracking system.  The yootles system, he says, undermines the 
spirit of magnanimity in favor-giving and fairness in decision-making and
is bad for society.

How's that for a gauntlet throwdown?  Let's hear some side-taking... 

Danny

--- \/	 FROM Daniel Reeves AT 06.06.29 12:13 (Today)	\/ ---

> Oh, wow, airport rides are a great example.  I've more than once wished I
> could respond along these lines:
>  "I could but it's at a bad time.  But I'd rather take you than leave 
>   you high and dry.  So, um, could I just pay for your cab?"
> But of course that's not an option.
>
> So, yes, we're making far from socially optimal decisions about rides to the 
> airport.  Bethany's idea to auction off the favor is a really good one! 
>
> If you could humor us and put in a bid even if you can't realistically do 
it,
> that would really help get a feel for how this system might work.
> Like I put in Y$2000 estimating that's how much it would cost to get a last  
> minute flight to detroit, rent a car, and drive Bethany to the airport.
>
> Ooh, and let me sweeten the deal:  if you take Bethany to the airport you 
can
> use her car while she's gone.  It's technically still my car, so I can say  
> that. :)
>
> Danny
>
> --- \/   FROM bethany soule AT 06.06.29 08:35 (Today)   \/ ---
>
>> Inasmuch as fairer favor tracking and better group decision making
>> improve the world, I'd like to open this up for discussion:	Can 
>> people make better decisions when they can explicitly compare their
>> utilities for the different options?
>>
>> Or, more specifically, can I identify from among my friends, who would 
>> least mind taking me to the airport tomorrow?  Let's find out:
>>
>> http://www.editgrid.com/user/bsoule/taxi-cab
>>   Or the view-only version since the above is browser-picky: 
>> http://www.editgrid.com/user/bsoule/taxi-cab.html
>>
>> (Getting 50 yootles should be plenty to get your own ride to the
>> airport from me or others later.  More at yootles.com.)
>> 
>> Bethany
>>
>
>

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       Good points, Monica!  This is why it only makes	sense to me for a
family or a couple or a close group of friends or a group  of co-workers (as
long as you're sure none of them are rapists! :-)) to  use the system.	Does
Bethany have to go with the lowest bidder though ?  Can't she skip the
"rapist's" offer and pay more for better service  just like we can choose not
to shop at Walmart?  
 ----- Original Message ---- From: Monica Stephens <mstephens  Æ
gmail.com> To: Lisa Hsu <hsul Æ eecs.umich.edu> Cc: Daniel Reeves
 <dreeves Æ umich.edu>; improvetheworld Æ umich.edu; Michael
Schwarz  <schwarz.m Æ gmail.com>; David Pennock <pennockd Æ
yahoo-inc.com>;  Yiling Chen <cheny Æ yahoo-inc.com>; Daniel
Reeves <dreeves Æ yahoo-inc .com>; yootopia-discuss Æ
yahoo-inc.com Sent: Thursday, June 29, 2006 :08:05 PM Subject: Re: Fairer
Favors	
  I only felt comfortable bidding on bethany 's airport trip after I e-mailed
her first.  I didn't want to force  her (through underbidding everybody else)
to make an economic decision  she was not socially comfortable with, and I
think that's my largest  qualm with using this system.	  
    
   I don't see the  value of all airport rides as the same.	If  I were
looking for a ride to the airport, and my partner bid an exorbitant  amount of
yootles (i.e. Danny's Y$2000) to fly here and drive me to the airport , I would
want to discourage others from underbidding him in the auction .     There is a
value added from spending the 30 min. drive  time with him.    After all, if I
then owed Y$2000, and  he had a 2000 yootle surplus, it would be in my best
interest to immediately  start charging yootles for things I usually do
(cooking, cleaning, dishes , backrubs, etc=E2 =A6).	I would probably make
up the	difference in less than 30 days, but I'd certainly piss him off in the
process .    Not only would he have to fly to Michigan for 30  minutes of my
time, but
 he'd then have to deal with price gouging for a back rub at 1:30 am.  
     
  So, back to Bethany's trip to the airport.	What  if a rapist bid 1 yootle
to drive her to the airport?  It would be  like the walmartization of the
yootle system--one could undercut everybody  else, economically force her to
buy their service, then provide a crappy service  that hurts everybody in the
long-run.   
     
  -Monica  
     
  On 6/29/06,  Lisa  Hsu  < hsul Æ eecs.umich.edu > wrote:  
 
 the thing that really sold me on the yootles idea is the anecdote danny  had
in his faq from dave...that sometimes he and exes have been at odds over 
something, and he "won" the argument when it really mattered much less to  him
than her, whatever it was.  i think there is always room for spontaneity
/generousity, but there are times where one of us wants something  (pizza) and
another wants something else (thai food) and we need some medium  of
arbitration...so i think it would be cool for my fiance and i to try yootles . 
 a concern though, that i didn't think of until i saw melanie 's email and
danny's email, is that then you might feel you get "owed" yootles  for being
generous.  like, if one day i just felt like making him  his favorite food, and
he didn't act sufficiently grateful ;), then i'd feel  like he should have
given me a bunch of yootles...hmmm...and eventually i  might stop offering
spontaneous gestures...??   i'm just thinking out  loud
 here.	i used to be concise and eloquent, before i became a full time 
engineer in college.  somehow, james has managed to keep his linguistic  gifts,
lucky him :).	
   lisa  
    
  On 6/29/06,  Daniel  Reeves  < dreeves Æ umich.edu  > wrote:  
 I'm getting responses offline	indicating mass misunderstanding of Bethany's
yootles mechanism.   I encourage you all to spam the group  (reply-all) since
it's  really no problem for people to just ignore/delete the whole thread (as 
long as you don't change the subject line).   The main question is  "what good
is a yootle?"  The answer is, as  established by precedent , about a fiftieth
of a ride to the airport. Yootles are not meant  to be exchanged for money. 
Nonetheless, if you  acquire yootles  you will, in a real sense, get positive
utility out of them.   ;In fact, I personally guarantee it.  If you can't
find anything  else to do with them I will give you cash for them.  Seriously ,
they're  very useful to me for things like influencing family decisions  or
getting
  out of doing the dishes.  Or getting out of tasks my boss assigns  (I kid you
not -- ask him; he's cc'd).  Which perhaps means  I shouldn't be  allowed to
buy yootles -- that question is still under  debate.  The whole  yootles thing
is still brand new.   It would be great to get input from you all.  The other
question  about Bethany's airport auction people are asking is,  why are people
 who aren't even in Michigan bidding thousands of yootles?  Yes, it would  be
very dumb for me to fly to Detroit to take Bethany to the airport  to fly to
New York to visit me.  But my bid just reflects that if   for some crazy
hypothetical reason she needed one of us to drive her at   any cost, that's
roughly what the cost to me would be.  The  auction mechanism now uses that
information to decide that, yes, it would  be dumb  for Danny to do it!  And,
as you can see, I'm fortunately 
 losing the  auction.  One anonymous person (ok, fine, my grandfather ) has
opined that this is an awful idea and that people should arrange  exchanges of
favors with no	explicit tracking system.  The yootles	system, he says,
undermines the	spirit of magnanimity in favor-giving  and fairness in
decision-making and is bad for society.  How 's that for a gauntlet throwdown? 
Let's hear some side-taking.. .   Danny  --- \/   FROM Daniel Reeves AT
06.06.29 12 :13 (Today)   \/ ---  > Oh, wow, airport rides are a great 
example.  I've more than once wished I > could respond along  these lines:
>  "I could but it's at a bad time.	 But I'd rather take you than leave 
>   you high and dry .  So, um, could I just pay for your cab?" > But of
course	that's not an option. > > So, yes, we're making far from socially
 optimal
 decisions about rides to the > airport.  Bethany's idea to	auction off the
favor is a really good one!  > > If you could humor  us and put in a bid
even if you can't realistically do it, > that  would really help get a feel
for how this system might work. > Like  I put in Y$2000 estimating that's
how much it would cost to get a last  > minute flight to detroit, rent a
car, and drive Bethany to the airport . > > Ooh, and let me sweeten the
deal:  if you take  Bethany to the airport you can > use her car while she's
gone.  ; It's technically still my car, so I can say  > that. :) > ;
> Danny > > --- \/   FROM bethany soule AT 06 .06.29 08:35 (Today)  
\/ --- > >> Inasmuch as fairer  favor tracking and better group
decision making >> improve the  world, I'd like to open this up for
discussion:  Can  >> ; people make
 better decisions when they can explicitly compare their >> utilities 
for the different options? >> >> Or, more specifically , can I
identify from among my friends, who would  >> least mind taking  me to
the airport tomorrow?  Let's find out: >> >> 
http://www.editgrid.com/user/bsoule/taxi -cab  >>   Or the view-only
version since the above  is browser-picky:  >>  http://www
.editgrid.com/user/bsoule/taxi-cab.html  >> >> (Getting  50 yootles
should be plenty to get your own ride to the >> airport  from me or
others later.  More at yootles.com.) >>	>> Bethany >> >
>  --  http://ai.eecs.umich.edu/people/dreeves    - -  
;search://"Daniel Reeves"   "Life may have no meaning -- or even worse , it may
have a meaning of which I disapprove."		      
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